A (Surprisingly) Healthy Way to Argue
Believe it or not, I think this is a healthy way for two people, who have differences, to argue. Yup. It's healthy! In my experience, there's two ways Christians handle confrontation: 1: "Healthy Discussion": No one should yell or raise their voice, everyone should have a sweet, happy, patient, understanding tone, always smiling, never angry. 2: "Let God Deal with it": Never address the issue, pray for them, and don't say anything. Continue as if everything is ok. (For the record, non-Christians do a variant of these two things, but since Ruslan and Marcus are both Christian, I'm just going to focus on Christians) Because both of these options are passive aggressive, and, by its very nature, passive aggression doesn't directly address the problem, which means the problem rarely, if ever, gets solved. Conflict avoidance isn't healthy, and I feel a lot of Christians will look at the above video and point to it as an example of failure. "TH...